Jim Byrne has helped dozens of couples to overcome their emotional, behavioural and relationship difficulties, and to
learn to communicate more effectively with each other. In the process they got very much better lives than they had
had previously. A recent example was the woman who wrote to say:
"Thanks for all your help,
Jim. Things are now going very much better for us. When conflicts and tensions do arise, we are now able to deal
with them quickly and effectively. After a recent setback, we emerged very strong and are feeling much more secure in
our relationship. We still practice what we learned from you.
13: Professional help with your
love relationship problems
How to improve your sex-love relationship: The essential guidelines!
Dr Jim Byrne, Doctor of Counselling
Now you can get valuable help with your relationship without coming to my office, and without picking
up the phone. All you have to do is read a few pages of text, watch the videos, and apply the principles that I will
be teaching you along the way!
Do you need help with your romantic
Are you experiencing unhappiness in your marriage or couple relationship? Are you looking for relief from the
stress of a relationship that is not working as well as it used to? Do you crave a loving relationship, but find yourself
involved in irresolvable conflict and misery?
What can I do to help?
I am a Doctor of Counselling with more than 15 years experience
of helping couples to improve their relationships, and to lead a happy, married or co-habiting life. A recent couple
gave me this feedback:
“Every time we come to see you, our relationship gets better and better; and now we have reached
a plateau which is so much better than the place we were at when we first came to see you. We are so much happier”.
They had no idea what
it was that I did to bring about this healing of their relationship problems; and all I know is it has something to do with
what I teach: models, principles and rules of relationships. The skills required to live happily together!
And now I want to make
those solutions available to you.
Teaching the client about the nature of love is one of the most difficult challenges a counsellor
faces: “There are no short-cuts to
understanding what love is. If someone has been deprived of the crudest infantile experience of love then he might be
permanently crippled or, at least, have great difficulty in learning later what the word can mean. In learning what
it symbolizes, I need to re-write my autobiography over and over again. To grow is to re-organize the past now
and to move into the future”.
Robert F. Hobson, Forms of Feeling: The heart of psychotherapy, Page 212. (25)
love yourself enough to give yourself this gift?
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13 – Professional help with your relationship problems: How to improve your sex-love relationship.
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relationships are a result of a commitment to being loving, and a rejection of anger, hatred, selfishness, and other negative
Doctor of Counselling
is only known to those who love". Anonymous
is short and we have not too much time for gladdening the hearts of those who are travelling the dark way with us. Oh,
be swift to love! Make haste to be kind". Henri Frederic Amiel
"The moment I start arguing (with you) I can be sure I am not sure of myself". K.
(Learn to fight fair; to be assertive, and not aggressive
Here is Part 1 of a three part video series that I have created as part of this
resource pack. I hope you like it:
Take a look at this video, which is available
at YouTube. Click the link or the image:
the need to avoid the negative emotions of anger, hatred, unhealthy jealousy, and so on, it is argued by Dr Erich Fromm, a
famous psychoanalyst, that the art of loving is based upon four key principles, which
include: Care, respect and responsibility. Based on this definition, you could train yourself
to remember to ask yourself:
# Do I care for my partner? Do I show by my words
and actions that I care for my partner? Does my partner clearly feel cared for by
me (as revealed by their words and actions)?
# Do I respect my partner?
Do I show by my words and actions that I respect my partner? Does my partner clearly feel
respected by me (as shown by their words and actions)?
# Do I take responsibility for my
side of my sex-love relationship? Do I show by my words and actions that I
am an actively responsible (rather than passively irresponsible) partner? Does my partner
clearly feel/believe that I am taking an equal, joint responsibility for
our relationship (as shown by their words and actions)?
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Advice on how and why you should always avoid getting involved in extra-marital
Eighteen of the most important principles of how to manage a happy couple relationship.
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