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Dr Jim Byrne offers counselling services all over the world, via the telephone and email systems; and face to face in Halifax and Hebden Bridge, West Yorkshire; and in London, Leeds and Manchester; plus Edinburgh, York and Wilmslow, Cheshire.

He also offers free informational services in the form of web pages and videos on various systems of counselling, including Rational Emotive Behaviour Therapy (REBT), Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT), Transactional Analysis (TA), Cognitive Emotive Narrative Therapy (CENT), and others.

Specialisms include: anger counselling; anxiety counselling; communication skills; couples therapy; depression counselling; relationship skills; and stress management.

Telephone counselling clients come from: The USA, Canada, Ireland, the UK, Australia, New Zealand, Singapore, Japan; but the service is available to English speakers everywhere.

Dr Byrne has developed a new system of counselling, through research and clinical practice.  This system is called Cognitive Emotive Narrative Therapy (CENT), and it is a fusion of Rational Emotive Behaviour Therapy (REBT), Cognitive and Narrative therapies, Transactional Analysis (TA), Object Relations and Attachment theories, moral philosophy, Zen Buddhism, and other elements.

Additionally, he offers training, supervision and books on counselling-related subjects.

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THE KEY EQUATION
Happiness (or calm serenity) plus success (or some level of meaningful goal achievement) plus mutually satisfying relationships (at least one) equals "good mental health".

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"If you think counselling is expensive, try self-neglect!"

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If you want to be successful in life, practice extreme self care!

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Dr-Jim-Homepage2.jpgHello, and welcome to the Counselling Information pages for

ABC Coaching and Counselling Services.

On this site you will find a range of free information pages and video recordings about various systems and models of counselling;

plus details of professional counselling services available all over the world by telephone;

and face to face in Hebden Bridge and Halifax, West Yorkshire;

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and in London, Leeds and Manchester;

and in Edinburgh, York and Wilmslow.

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A good counsellor reveals their humanity to their clients: "It is through our own genuineness and aliveness that we can significantly touch our clients.  If we make life-oriented choices, radiate a zest for life, and are real in our relationships with our clients, we can inspire and teach them in the best sense of those words".  This does not mean we do not have any problems, but rather that we manage our problems well. 

Gerald Corey, 2001, Theory and Practice of Counseling and Psychotherapy, page 15. (29)

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Visitor Comment:

"This site is a great resource, with lots of good and original counselling information and material available for free.  I particularly liked some of the counselling videos, and the couples therapy and anger management pages".

R. Matthews, 22nd September 2011

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Counselling Client Testimonial:

"Hi Jim, It's now five years since I first consulted you for counselling help, and I continue to benefit from the work we did together.  I no longer feel depressed or anxious for very long, and I can quickly figure out what is going on, and sort it out.  I recently read Erickson's book entitled 'My voice will go with you', and I realized that your voice is always with me, encouraging me, and reminding me to think for myself.  I will always be very grateful for the help you gave me".

M.G., 16th September 2011

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(1) Information about counselling services all over the world:

(a) Telephone counselling in the USA, Canada, Ireland, UK, Australia and New Zealand; and for English speakers all over the world;

(b) Email counselling all over the world;

(c1) Face to face counselling services in Hebden Bridge, West Yorkshire, UK;

(c2) Face to face counselling in Halifax, West Yorkshire;

(d) Face to face counselling services in London, Leeds and Manchester.

(e) Face to face counselling services in Edinburgh, York and Wilmslow.

(f) How can counselling help?

(g) The Institute for CENT Counselling.

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Update - 8th May 2012: A new issue of *The ABC Counselling Newsletter* is now available.***

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CENT ebook No.6 is now available:

GreatingJoy3.jpgCreating Joy: How to be much happier, right now!  by Dr Jim Byrne

The main aim of this book is to spread happiness.  Not just any old hedonistic happiness, excitement, or thrill seeking; but rather pro-social, moral, sustainable happiness, in line with the insights of Positive psychology, Buddhist psychology, Stoic philosophy and various forms of Rational and Narrative therapy, and the two major systems of writing therapy (the scientific and the artistic).

In this book you will find a twelve week program which is designed to help you to manage your life in such a way that you can reduce your unhappiness and increase your happiness.  You will learn simple techniques that can produce almost immediate improvements that will astound you.

Available here: Creating Joy: How to be much happier, right now! 

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*Update, April 2012*: The Happiness Counselling Blog - Currently featuring 'Happiness for Couples' 

 

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Anxiety.book.2.jpgCENT e-book No.5: How to Control Your Anxiety: A rational approach using REBT/CBT, by Dr Jim Byrne

In this ebook, I want to do two things: (1) To present a basic understanding of the Rational-Emotive Behaviour Therapy (REBT/CBT) approach to dealing with anxiety’; and (2) To provide a set of exercises for you to do so that you can learn how to analyze your problems with anxiety; identify solutions; and implement those solutions so as to eliminate your anxiety. In that way, you can become your own “counsellor”, in the area of anxiety and fear, because you can learn to fix your own emotional and behavioural problems.

For further information, please go to How to control your anxiety...

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*Update*: Free information on Attachment Theory.  Learn to understand the varieties of human attachment, which is central to forming secure, adult relationships.

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couns-for-toads2.jpgCounselling for Toads, by Robert de Board

'Toad', the famous character in Kenneth Grahame's The Wind in the Willows is in a very depressed state and his good friends Rat, Mole and Badger, are 'worried that he might do something silly'...

First they nursed him. Then they encouraged him. Then they told him to pull himself together... Finally, Badger could stand it no longer. That admirable animal, though long on exhortation, was short on patience.

'Now look here Toad, this can go on no longer', he said sternly. 'There is only one thing left. You must have counselling!'

Robert de Board's engaging account of Toad's experience of counselling will capture the imagination of the growing readership of people who are interested in counselling and the counselling process. Written as a real continuation of life on the River Bank, Toad and his friends come to life all over again.
Available at Amazon: Counselling for Toads
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(2) Counselling specialisms:

Dr Jim Byrne specializes in seven fields of counselling activity:

(a) Couples counselling and marriage guidance;

(b) Anger management counselling;

(c) Stress management counselling;

(d) Counselling for anxiety and panic;

(e) Counselling for depression;

(f) Confidence coaching and counselling; and:

(g) Interpersonal communications coaching, including assertiveness training.

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Stress.book.cover.jpgCENT e-book No.3: How to Reduce and Control Your Stress Level, and to Have a Happier Life: The CENT approach

The purpose of this book is to teach the reader what stress is, and how to combat it. It is written in the form of a self-help manual, with spaces for self-reflection exercises. However, it could also be used by counsellors, counselling students, and interested others, as a means to learn, understand and present the CENT approach to Stress Management in counselling, coaching and therapy contexts.

For further information on this book, go to How to Control Your Stress Level...

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(3) Information about counselling systems:

(a) What is counselling?

(b) 16 videos on counselling?

(c) Video on Couple Counselling: How to Build a Successful Marriage or Couple Relationship

(d) What is Rational Emotive Behaviour Therapy (REBT)?

(e) What is Transactional Analysis (TA)?

(f) What is Cognitive Emotive Narrative Therapy (CENT)?

(g) The development of CENT counselling.

(h) Articles and papers on CENT counselling.

(i) Ebooks on counselling, for stress, anxiety, etc...

(j) Counselling research page: Some reflections on counselling research issues...

(k) *New*: A new CENT paper on how to resolve the trauma arising out of a failed marriage in the past, using writing therapy.

couns-skills-dummies1.jpgCounselling Skills for Dummies, by Gail Evans

Whether you are considering becoming a counsellor, have to provide some form of counselling as part of your job, or are simply interested in communicating well, Counselling Skills For Dummies provides the perfect introduction to the practical basics of counselling.

Starting with a thorough guide to the qualities, knowledge and skills needed to become a ‘listening helper’, the book goes on to provide a framework for a counselling session, helping you to successfully manage a potentially daunting process. It illustrates how you can create a positive relationship between listener and speaker and how asking the right questions is so important to the progression of that relationship. It also shows how you can better understand yourself, which is a crucial step in ensuring that you break down your own barriers to listening.

Available at Amazon: Counselling Skills for Dummies

(4) Other services:

Other services are available on this site.  Let me mention a few of them here: 

(a) The six main services;

(b) The Happiness Counselling Blog;

(c) The ABC Counselling Newsletter contains recent updates.

(d) Training and supervision services for counsellors and others.

(e) Membership Services (MI-CENT) for counsellors and others.

(f) CENT Paper No.17: Counselling for chronic pain - A review of Tim Parks' book...

(g) CENT Paper No.18: Counselling needs the support of physical exercise...

(h) CENT Paper No.19: Counselling for health (3): How your mind can heal your body...

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CENT e-book No.2: CENT Counselling: How to apply Cognitive Emotive Narrative Therapy in Counselling and Self-help, by Dr Jim Byrne

This is a popular introduction to the theory and practice of Cognitive Emotive Narrative Therapy (CENT), which is a highly effective new philosophy of life, and psychological system of therapy and self-help.

For further information on this book, please click here.

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(5) Information about Dr Jim Byrne:

(a) About Dr Jim Byrne, Doctor of Counselling;

(b) Accreditation and ethics codes; 

(c) Unsolicited client testimonials;

(d) *Updated for 2012*: Information pack for face to face clients; 

(e) Schedule of fees; and:

(f) Contact details.

(g) *Note*: For an insight into the value and power of counselling systems, see these two papers: My Story of Origins; and my Story of Relationship; in which I describe my own personal counselling and therapy journey over the course of my lifetime.

couns-skills-theory-hough1.jpgCounselling Skills and Theory, by Margaret Hough

This is where you can find an overview of the major approaches in counselling, how they fit together, and how you can integrate them into your practice. It's also your guide to the nature of counselling, the skills needed to be a counsellor and managing the challenges of the counselling relationship!

This new edition is suitable for a wide range of courses, including Foundation, Certificate, Diploma and Higher Education studies in Counselling. There is discussion of the Improving Access to Psychological Therapies programme with expanded coverage of CBT approaches. It also references the latest BACP guidelines for counsellor training and best practice. The book reflects the impending requirement for statutory regulation of counsellors and psychotherapists via the Health Professions Council.

Every year the Case Studies, Exercises , Handouts, and Resources tips in this book help thousands of trainees and established practitioners develop their understanding of the theories and practical skills required in this challenging and rewarding profession!
Available at Amazon: Counselling Skills and Theory
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In the video clip that follows, Dr Jim Byrne presents a brief outline of the eleven central principles of his Cognitive Emotive Narrative Therapy (CENT) and counselling system. CENT is a fusion of REBT/CBT, Transactional Analysis and Object Relations, Attachment Theory, Zen Buddhism, moral philosophy and other philosophical elements.

Additional Information

Counselling, as practiced by Dr Jim Byrne, amounts to an opportunity to examine:

♣ Where you are now in your life.

♣ Where you are trying to get to.

♣ The kind of 'life narrative' you are living, and how to change it.

♣ The kinds of action plans that could take you forward.

♣ The emotions that are having a negative impact on your life, and how to manage them better, by a process of 'reframing' your life's difficulties.

♣ The behaviours that you engage in which cause you problems, such as: aggression, withdrawal, procrastination, over-eating, under-exercising, etc.

♣ The kinds of experiences that you may have denied earlier in your life, resulting in 'refused-pain'-distortions of your life today, which we need to dig up and digest, process and allow to be.

♣ How you relate to people in your life, and how you can learn to feel more secure in your relationships by exploring how you feel about your counsellor.

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Crown-of-thorns-4.jpgCENT e-book No.4: Crown of Thorns - A Memoir of Childhood in Ireland by Daniel O'Beeve

The Institute for CENT agreed to publish this somewhat fictionalized memoir of Daniel O'Beeve's childhood in Ireland, because of its psychologically curative potential.  All humans live within stories, and stories are the medium through which we understand ourselves and each other.  And some stories contribute greatly to our emotional development and maturity. This story has the potential to change the reader in significant ways.

For further information about this book, see this memorir of childhood in Ireland

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Counselling has very specific, measurable effects on the lives of counselling clients:

(a) What my clients gain;

(b) The benefits of counselling;

(c) Unsolicited client testimonials.

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Counselling for Happiness

CENT counselling is particularly strongly focussed upon the question of how to help the client to become happier.  Happiness is a key goal of this system of counselling.  But how can you learn to be happier?

Happier-the-book.jpgHappier: Learn the Secrets to Daily Joy and Lasting Fulfillment

Can You Learn to Be Happy?

YES . . . according to the teacher of Harvard University's most popular and life-changing course. One out of every five Harvard students has lined up to hear Tal Ben-Shahar's insightful and inspiring lectures on that ever-elusive state: HAPPINESS.

HOW?
Grounded in the revolutionary "positive psychology" movement, Ben-Shahar ingeniously combines scientific studies, scholarly research, self-help advice, and spiritual enlightenment. He weaves them together into a set of principles that you can apply to your daily life. Once you open your heart and mind to Happier 's thoughts, you will feel more fulfilled, more connected . . . and, yes, HAPPIER.

Available from Amazon: Happier: Learn the Secrets to Daily Joy and Lasting Fulfillment

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CENT is a holistic system of counselling which includes the care of the whole body/mind of the client. 

Pale-Green-Logo.gifIn CENT counselling, we do not agree with the Cartesian separation of mind and body.  You are a walking mind and a thinking body.  You are a body that has a lifetime of objective/subjective experience mediated through your mind.  You are an experienced brain-mind-body, and your tomorrow is shaped by your subjectively experienced yesterday.  To change your life, you have to somehow change how your experience has wired up your brain-mind-body.  This could involve changing your diet, exercise, and/or your self-talk (which is the story you keep telling yourself about your life); your location in space-time; your relationships; your attitudes.  The changes that we will work on together in CENT counselling depend upon what your goals are.  Where are you trying to get to?  What suffering are you trying to eliminate or avoid? 

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CENT counseling is a particular form of Attachment Counselling, which looks at how securely attached clients are to their loved ones: "Finding out how your parents cared for you when you were small, whether through your own memory or by asking those who witnessed it or by analysing the way you relate to others today, could lead to a more fulfilled life. ... (Early) parental care is crucial in forming who we are...".  CENT counselling promotes this aim of digging up the past by advocating that you write the ‘Story of your origins', and the ‘Story of your early relationships', especially your relationship with your mother.

Quotation from page 3 of Dr Oliver James' book: They F*** You Up: How to survive family life.  London: Bloomsbury. (32).

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REBT is another system of counselling and therapy that emphasizes the importance of working at making yourself happy:

EllisOnHappiness1.jpgBook review: How to Make Yourself Happy and Remarkably Less Disturbable, by Dr Albert Ellis, (the creator of Rational Emotive Behaviour Therapy [REBT])

Each of us has healthy, constructive and creative tendencies, but unfortunately, we also have their unhealthy, destructive counterparts. These self-defeating tendencies, moreover, are usually powerful and frequent. Ellis shows precisely what our natural constructive inclinations are and how to use them to overcome harmful leanings. See how to: defeat inherited and acquired tendencies to become severely anxious, depressed, enraged, self-hating, and/or self-pitying; change thoughts, feelings, and actions that lead to disturbances in order to make yourself considerably less upset and less self-defeating; persistently and strongly keep using REBT (Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy) methods until they become automatic and habitual, thereby making yourself less disturbable even when adversities occur in life.

Available at Amazon: How to Make Yourself Happy and Remarkably Less Disturbable

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I hope you find the information on this web site interesting and useful.  There are more than thirty video clips on counselling systems and processes on various pages.  And there are dozens of pages on different systems of counselling, and related subjects, like meditation, diet and exercise. And if you need counselling help or support, please do contact me.

If you want to escape from the pain of depression and anxiety, or the self-inflicted losses (of relationships, jobs, friends, careers, self respect, etc) resulting from uncontrolled anger, then you could benefit from CENT counselling with me.

What I do best is to help you to develop 'narrative competence', so you can re-write the story of your current and past life, which will create a better future for you; one which does not contain the pain and distress of the present moment.  We live our lives according to a non-conscious script, and to change our lives we have to change that script.  Furthermore, if you try to run away from your problems, they will pursue you.  To get rid of them, you have to learn how to 'complete your experience' of them, which 'digests them', and allows them to go into the background of your life, harmlessly. The major developmental challenges for people who are suffering with strong and disturbing negative emotions are: (1) to complete any undigested experiences from your past; (2) to learn how to become securely attached to others; (3) to learn how to 'reframe' your experiences, so they show up in a less disturbing light; and (4) to re-write the story or script that is driving your life in negative directions. I can show you how to tackle those challenges, and how to have a healthier, happier life.

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Doctor of Counselling

ABC Coaching and Counselling Services

Jim.byrne@abc-counselling.com

01422 843 629 (from inside the UK);

44 1422 843 629 (from outside the UK).

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The image of the person utilized in narrative counselling begins with the ‘social story': "Narrative therapists conceive people as socially and individually complex; never fully knowable or explicable to themselves or others.  People's frequent accounts of their experience, repeatedly told to themselves and others, and drawn from selective memory, are believed to be the most important factors influencing their sense of themselves and how they view their lives and relationships..."

Martin Payne (2007) Narrative Therapy, in Dryden's Handbook of Individual Therapy, page 405. (36)

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Information about Counselling
 
Here are some video clips to help you to get a flavour of the ABC Coaching and Counselling Services approach to counselling and therapy:
1. This first clip is a brief introduction to Dr Jim Byrne, ABC Coaching and Counselling Services, and the counselling services on offer.2. In this second clip, I describe the importance of taking responsibility for your own life, as the essential foundation for any form of successful counselling process.
 

 

 
3. Here is a brief introduction to Cognitive Emotive Narrative Therapy (CENT), which is the form of counselling and therapy created and used by Dr Jim Byrne.  There are at least 16 videos on the 16 Counselling Videos page.4. This is Part 2 of 'What is Counselling?'  It was produced by me to update my statements about the way I think of counselling.  In particular, I mention the importance of Attachment Theory, and the counsellor being emotionally available to the client.

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Videos on Counselling, plus Information on Counseling Systems

Defining, describing and illustrating counselling systems

I use the terms counselling, coaching and psychotherapy interchangeably, to mean processes of helping my clients to develop a greater capacity to manage their thoughts, feelings, behaviours and action plans.  If you want a more formal definition, then here is Richard Nelson-Jones on the subject:

"Therapy is derived from the Greek word 'therapeia' meaning healing.  Attempts to differentiate between counselling and psychotherapy are never wholly successful.  Because counselling and therapy represent diverse rather than uniform knowledge and activities, it is more accurate to think of counselling approaches and psychological therapies".

Some commentators draw a distinction between counselling and therapy, but this distinction is difficult to maintain, and I do not accept that it is valid.  As Nelson-Jones says: "Attempts to distinguish counselling from therapy include observations that therapy deals more with mental disorders than counselling, that therapy is longer-term and deeper, and that therapy is predominantly associated with medical settings.  However, matters are not this clear-cut.  Many counsellors work in medical settings, have clients with recognized mental disorders and do longer-term work that is sometimes of a psychodynamic nature.

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Freud-ShortIntro.jpgBook Review - Freud: A Very Short Introduction, by Anthony Storr

Sigmund Freud, the founder of psychoanalysis, developed a totally new way of looking at human nature.

Only now, with the hindsight of the half-century since his death, can we assess his true legacy to current thought.

As an experienced psychiatrist himself, Anthony Storr offers a lucid and objective look at Freud's major theories, evaluating whether they have stood the test of time, and in the process examines Freud himself in light of his own ideas.

An excellent introduction to Freud's work, this book will appeal to all those broadly curious about psychoanalysis, psychology, and sociology.

"Storr's brief, elegant, and interesting book coolly surveys what we might term the house of Freud and finds almost everything flawed...yet he does not dispute that the builder of the shaky house was a genius."

D.M. Thomas, The Observer

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Counselling and therapy are largely overlapping systems, and it is probably better to see them as part of a common system of helping others: "Syme (2000) rightly suggests that there is huge overlap between counselling and therapy.  As an illustration of perceived overlap, the Psychotherapy and Counselling Federation of Australia promulgates 'A definition of counselling and psychotherapy' as a single statement. (Psychotherapy and Counselling Federation of Australia, 1997).  Both counselling and therapy are psychological processes that use the same theoretical models.  Each stresses the need to value the client as a person, to listen carefully and sympathetically to what they have to say, and to foster the capacity for self-help and personal responsibility".  Pages 4-5, Essential Counselling and Therapy Skills: The skilled client model.  Richard Nelson-Jones, London, Sage Publications, 2002. 

# What is Counselling? 

# Counselling all over the world...

In the remainder of this section I will introduce a number of ideas about counselling and psychotherapy, using video clips.  My intention is to give you a rough idea of what it is like to be counselled by counselors from several different disciplines, including the cognitive behavioural, the psychodynamic (or emotive) approach, the narrative approach, Gestalt and TA, and so on.  You will get a sense of some of the differences of emphasis and the areas of overlap in these various schools of counselling.

In addition (June 2011 onwards) I intend to add brief summary notes on all the systems of counselling and therapy in which I have been trained, including mini-papers on Questions and Answers on Counselling Systems.  This should be helpful for individuals who are curious about the nature of counselling and therapy, including students on counselling and psychotherapy courses.

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NelJonsThePrac3.jpgBook Review: Theory and Practice of Counselling and Therapy, by Richard Nelson-Jones

'Theory and Practice of Counselling is a very thorough introduction to the whole subject a knowledge of which is useful if not essential in the health, occupational family and personal development sectors, as well as many other caring professions' - The Psychologist

'Richard Nelson-Jones' book has become so much a part of the counselling theory literature; it is hard to imagine discussing the topic without reference to it. This Third Edition gives testimony to its continued value.

It is hard to fault this book, its readability and detailed referencing, alone, will mean that it will suit a wide readership? If you have to buy only one book on counselling and therapy, this is it'.

Professor Philip Burnard, Journal of Psychiatric and Mental Health Nursing

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'Richard Nelson-Jones takes this complex subject and explains the whys and hows of each different type of therapy about as well as it can be done. There is no better introduction' - Amazon Review

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I shall begin today (28th June 2011) with a summary introduction to the process of creating counselling and therapy approaches, as described by Richard Nelson-Jones (2001) Theory and Practice of Counselling and Therapy, Third Edition.  London: Continuum.

"A theoretical approach represents a single position regarding the theory and practice of counselling and therapy.

"A school of counselling and therapy is a grouping of different theoretical approaches which ar similar to one another in terms of certain important characteristics that distinguish them from approaches in other counselling and therapy schools.

"Probably the three main schools that influence contemporary individual counselling and therapy theory and practice are the psychodynamic school, the humanistic-existential school, and the cognitive-behavioural school".  (Page 19).

I will now present a link to my first mini-paper in this series:

# Questions and answers on creating counselling and therapy approaches.

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What does counselling look like in practice? 

If you are already familiar with counselling and therapy, then please skip the 'introduction to counselling' video that follows, and go to the video intro to Cognitive Emotive Narrative Therapy (CENT).  If you would like an introduction to the subject of counselling, and to Dr Byrne's own Cognitive Emotive Narrative Counselling, then please see the video clips and links that follow immediately.  To view a vido clip, please Click > once on the on-screen arrow:

This definition of counselling is further elaborated in the links that follow:

The system of counselling that I use is called Cognitive Emotive Narrative Therapy (CENT), and I have produced a brief and general video introduction to this system, which follows.  Click > once:

Again, if you want further clarification about Cognitive Emotive Narrative Therapy (CENT), then please read the following brief paper on that subject:

# What is Cognitive Emotive Narrative Therapy (CENT)?

# Counselling all over the world...

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My first book on Cognitive Emotive Narrative Therapy was this: Therapy after Ellis, Berne, Freud and the Buddha:

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Cover of e-book No.1CENT e-book No.1: The Theoretical Grounding of CENT 

 

Byrne, J. (2010) Therapy after Ellis, Berne, Freud and the Buddha: the birth of Cognitive Emotive Narrative Therapy (CENT). Hebden Bridge: The Institute for CENT.

For further information on this book, please click here.

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So, I have now defined counselling; and presented a brief introduction to CENT, which is an integration of ideas and techniques from Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT), Rational Emotive Behaviour Therapy (REBT), Transactional Analysis (TA), Object Relations, and Narrative Therapy. However, before I present you with any more of my own video clips about Cognitive Emotive Narrative Therapy (CENT), I want to break that down into components that are easier to understand. So first I will present a video clip which features a  National Health Service (NHS) client who had Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT) for depression when her husband died. Her testimonial should give you some good insights into what people get from cognitive type therapies:

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CBT-Wilding.jpgBook review: Teach Yourself Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, by Christine Wilding and Aileen Milne

"This book brought me back from the depths of suicidal thoughts and anxiety, and taught me how to isolate those thinking patterns from my work life. It was crucial for me to read this book, because I was wildly successful in my career, but floundering emotionally because of past pains that I couldn't identify. This book has saved me thousands of dollars and years of therapy. I don't knock therapy at all, but this book will help you actually know what to ask for help in when you actually see a therapist, and that has saved me lots of time and money. The exercises in this book alone are worth more than anything else on the market. This book is a game-changer, and must have for any personal library or friend who is struggling. Just put it in a emotional first aid kit!!! It should be required collegiate reading for any person even considering the psychology profession or ministry." Name not provided.

Available from Amazon: Teach Yourself Cognitive Behavioural Therapy

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Next I want to present a statement from an NHS (National Health Service) expert in Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT), talking about the benefits to be gained from this kind of counselling and therapy:

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Now I would like to show you a counselling role play session, based on Cognitive Therapy, with a young man who is unhappy with his life:

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CogTherapySanders2.jpgA general introduction to Cognitive Therapy (CT):

Book Review: Cognitive Therapy: An Introduction, Second edition, by Diana Sanders and Frank Wills

'This book provides an ideal introduction in the area of cognitive therapy (CT). Sanders and Wills remain true to their first edition's name of portraying with honesty the practice of CT, and in this edition build on the first to inspiringly capture the developments of CT, as well as the broadening spectrum of its practitioners. Good diagrams are provided throughout, modelling formulations and the different conceptualizations of CT, as well as exercises for use with patients. The therapy is brought to life by scripts from sample cases. The appealing yet cautionary frankness of the authors in reporting their own interactions and fallibility makes it ideal for a trainee practitioner' - Behavioural and Cognitive Psychotherapy

'It is… particularly useful that main points are summarised in tables, making this a very easy-to-read book. It is evident from the way the material is presented that the authors are experienced therapists, who have a deep understanding of the cognitive therapy process per se and the applications of cognitive theory in general. Case studies are presented throughout the book to illustrate the theory, offering valuable educational material to the readers. The book has also been written with an open mind, providing a balanced overview of both the strengths and limitations of an evidence-based therapeutic model. I believe that it will make a useful source for all those professionals who wish to introduce themselves to cognitive therapy as well as an excellent introductory training textbook' - Accident and Emergency Nursing

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And here is a brief academic paper on Cognitive Therapy (CT) which I wrote for my Rusland Diploma course, in 2003; followed by a Question and Answer Mini-paper, also on CT:

# Rusland Diploma Assignment on Cognitive Therapy (2003);

# *New*: Q&A Mini-paper on Cognitive Therapy

All systems of CBT were inspired by the original form of cognitive behaviour counselling, which was Rational Emotive Behaviour Therapy (REBT), developed by Dr Albert Ellis, in New York City, in the period 1953-1962, and continually updated since that time, up to his death in 2007.  See the following documents:

# What is REBT? - An extensive web page of information on the theory and practice of REBT;

# Rusland College assignment on REBT;

# Q&A Mini-paper on REBT.

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 Although REBT was the original form of cognitive behaviour therapy: "Cognitive therapy (as such) was initially developed in the early 1970s by Dr Aaron Beck of the University of Pennsylvania.  The theory postulates that during clients' cognitive development they learn incorrect habits of processing and interpreting information. Cognitive therapists attempt to unravel clients' distortions and help them to learn different and more realistic ways of processing and reality-testing information".

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As a final illustration of the CBT approach to counselling, here is a CBT role play from the Australian Institute of Professional Counselling (AIPC):

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 "Rational Emotive Behaviour Therapy (REBT) is not a purely intellectual approach to counseling, but strongly emphasizes the interplay of feeling, behaviour and cognition (or thought)".

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# What is Counselling? 

# Counselling all over the world...

There are no really good videos of role plays using Rational Emotive Behaviour Therapy (REBT) - which is a shame.  However, here is a video clip in which Dr Jeffrey Guterman presents a one minute excerpt from a telephone counselling session he had with Dr Albert Ellis, the creator of REBT, back in the early 1980s.  Jeffrey is on the telephone to the Institute for RET in New York City.  It nicely illustrates something about the ABC model of REBT:

Further down this page, I have posted a video clip in which I demonstrate that REBT does not have to be delivered in hard-nosed, non-empathic ways, which has sometimes happened in the past.  REBT can be, and should be, as sensitive and caring as the most person-centred system of counselling and psychotherapy.

The basic difference between general CBT and REBT is that, in CBT the counsellor will be looking to identify your 'automatic thoughts ' - especially over-generalizations, ignoring positives, and producing exaggerations - while in REBT the counsellor looks for what are called 'irrational beliefs', which include demanding the unattainable; exaggerating the degree of badness of your situation; assuming you can not tolerate your problems; and condemning and damningyourself, other people, and the world.  To find out more about REBT, try the 'What is REBT?' page.

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So much for the cognitive approach. Now I want to show you a role play session illustrating a more emotive counselling approach - the psycho-dynamic counselling model - in which the counsellor looks for the roots of current problems in the childhood of the client:

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Introduction to Freud's Psychoanalysis 

Sigmund Freud was the great-grandfather of all systems of counselling and psychotherapy.  In the 1890s he created a system called psychoanalysis, which set the pattern for one specialist to help one client to work through their emotional distress with a view to making sense of it, and thereby resolve it. 

# Here's a link to a YouTube video clip on Freud's system of Psychoanalysis.***

Freud saw the human individual as being split between two major instincts: the life urge (or Eros) and the death urge (or Thanatos).  This distinction is preserved in the CENT distinction between our Good Wolf and our Bad Wolf sides.  When Freudians talk about 'libido' they are talking about manifestations of the life urge.

The human mind is seen to be split three ways in psychoanalysis, between the individual organism as born (which is called the 'it', or 'id); the internalized rules, attitudes and values of the mother/father (which is called the 'over-I', or 'superego'); and the sense of self of the individual (which is called the 'ego', or 'the I'). The psychic energy - or aliveness - of the individual is distributed between these three elements of mind, which may be in harmony with each other, or in significant conflict.

The ego holds the tension between the innate urges of the 'it' and the socially-shaped constraining influence of the 'over-I' (or super-ego).

# Q&A Mini-Paper No.2: Freud's Psychoanalysis

# Rusland Diploma Assignment on Freud and Jung

# Q&A Mini-Paper No.3: Jung's Analytical Therapy 

 

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Most systems of counselling and psychotherapy involve the counsellor in asking probing questions.   (The exception is the Rogerian system of person-centred counselling, which avoids using leading questions).  The reason for probing questions is to allow the therapist to build up a diagnostic picture of the client's problem(s).  However, when this kind of questioning is done unskillfully - and sometimes when it is not - the client may respond with irritability.  Here is a psycho-dynamic consideration of this issue, which answers the question 'Why put yourself through psychotherapy, given this probing question irritation?:

"Since the probing aspect of psychotherapy is so often disliked, why should anyone want to put themselves through encounters of this sort?

"One of the reasons is that it is a dull sort of relief indeed to be shut off from one's inner life, which is what is achieved by the excessive use of defenses (against probing questions).  It is a greater relief to be able to open up even though doing so is not easy.  That is why Aeschylus ... spoke of the 'discipline of suffering' as a 'mercy of the gods'.  Psychotherapy at its best can help enlarge the mind, and illuminate its contents.  Nor does it all have to be trial by suffering.  It is not always recognized that psychotherapy and psychoanalysis aim to increase common sense and a grasp of reality, as well as opening one up to the nuances of emotional and imaginative life.  There is an intrinsic pleasure in coming to know what is going on inside oneself and in others, and to grasp more fully many aspects of life, both the practical and the emotional.  Moreover it can also be a revelation to recognise the impact of our inner worlds, our psychic reality, upon our thinking, attitudes and perceptions of ourselves, since it is as influential, or even more influential, than the effects of actual childhood events.

"Thus in all psychotherapy, although we need to take fully into account historical facts, or the facts of an individual's day-to-day circumstances, it is important to recognize that we have a world within us which powerfully affects how we operate and how we perceive things".  Page 169 of 'Talking Cure: Mind and method of the Tavistock Clinic'.  David Taylor (editor).  Duckworth: 1999.

# What is REBT counselling? 

# What is Cognitive Emotive Narrative Therapy (CENT)?

A recent issue of Scientific American contains evidence that psycho-dynamic counseling is highly effective for a range of issues, and that participants in the research not only improved as a result of the counselling, but continued to improve on their own, many months after the counselling sessions ended.

The psychodynamic approach to counselling and psychotherapy is also misunderstood because of public prejudices against Freud and his theory of psychosexual stages of development. If you want to experience a review of the modern Freudian theory in an academic context, then take a look at this debate at the University of Richmond:

You could also take a look at one of my Cognitive Emotive Narrative Therapy papers - my CENT Paper No.9, - which integrates Freud and the cognitive-behavioural models of the mind, in a way that helps counsellors and therapists to improve their understanding of the mind of the counselling client. 

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We have looked at examples of cognitive and emotive approaches to counselling and psychotherapy, and now we will take a look at a role play demonstrating what Narrative Therapy is like, as a process of counselling:

 

For counselling and psychotherapy students:  If you are a counselling student, then it is important to note that there are three preexisting approaches to narrative counselling and therapy, as described by McLeod (2003), pages 227-238[1].  These are: the psychodynamic approach; the cognitive/constructivist approach; and the social constructionist approach. 

(1) The psychodynamic approachto the use of narratives in counseling and therapy focuses on the ways that the client’s stories can reveal habitual ways of relating; and the counsellor can thus use those stories to help the client to ‘re-author’ their lives: (Strupp and Binder, 1984[2]; Luborsky and Crits-Christoph, 1990)[3].  The main emphasis in the psychodynamic approach to narrative use in counselling and psychotherapy is in helping to identify the Core Conflictual Relationship Theme (CCRT).  This CCRT then provides the basic agenda for their work of counselling.

(2) The cognitive/constructivist approach to the use of narratives in counselling and therapy focuses on two strategies: (A) Identifying stories that conflict with each other, which provides the possibility of using ‘cognitive dissonance’ to help with the challenge of rewriting and integrating conflicted schemas (or frames, scripts, stories) in the client’s long-term memory[4]; and:(B) The use of metaphor. For example: my use of the images of being a ‘little mouse’ and then ‘a big moral cat’, in my Story of Origins.  Metaphors can be depowering and empowering, and the therapist can help the client to develop more empowering metaphors for their problem roles, themes, or characters in their most difficult stories[5].

(3) The social constructionist approachto narrative therapy and counseling is based on the idea that we are social beings born into a story-telling culture; that we are surrounded by stories, myths, legends; that these stories preceded our existence, and we take on some of the story roles and themes into which we are thrown at birth.  The main contributors to the development of this tradition were White and Epston, a couple of Australasian family therapists: (White and Epston, 1990)[6].  Since people are seen as occupying a family- or community-generated narrative or story, the solution is to ‘externalize’ this story, and get the client to see it as not part of them, so they can step away from the roles specified in the story; or they can re-author their story in various ways.  Like CENT therapy, this form of therapy uses both spoken dialogue and written narratives to help the client to unearth their dominant narratives and to change them.

CENT counseling and therapy does not fit comfortably within any of the three narrative traditions outlined above.  Neither was CENT directly inspired by the creators of any of those three traditions.  Nevertheless, we can easily see that CENTinvolves an integration of traditions (1) and (3) – the psychodynamic and the social constructionist.  But CENTis much more than that; and is a completely unique approach to narrative use in psychotherapy and counseling, in that we utilize the psychodynamic approach, the cognitive approach, and the social constructionist approach – plus Transactional Analysis and moral philosophy - to inform our understanding of human development and individual functioning in the world.  In Chapters 9 and 10, we will explore how the CENT model of the social nature of the individual is constructed.” Extract from Chapter 7 of ‘Therapy After Ellis, Berne, Freud and the Buddha’, by Dr Jim Byrne, in press. 



[1] McLeod, J. (2003) An Introduction to Counselling.  Third edition.  Buckingham: Open University Press.   
[2]Strupp, H.H. and Binder, J.L. (1984) Psychotherapy in a New Key: A guide to time-limited dynamic psychotherapy.  New York: Basic Books. 
[3]Luborsky, L. and Crits-Christoph, P. (eds) (1990) Understanding Transference: the CCRT method.  New York: Basic Books. 
[4]Russell, R.L. and van den Brock, P. (1992) Changing narrative schemas in psychotherapy.  Psychotherapy, 29:  344-354.
[5]Gonçalves, O.F. (1995) Hermeneutics, constructivism and cognitive-behavioural therapies: from the object to the project.  In: R.A. Neimeyer and M.J. Mahoney (eds) Constructivism in psychotherapy.  Washington, DC: American Psychological Association. 
[6]White, M. and Epston, D. (1990) Narrative Means to Therapeutic Ends.  New York: Norton.

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Obviously, there are lots of overlaps between these systems of counseling and psychotherapy, and some obvious differences. These role plays are a little stilted, since they are not genuine counselling sessions; but they should give you some sense of what would be involved in coming to see me, or another counsellor/therapist, and working on your issues.

Before I move on to Cognitive Emotive Narrative Therapy (CENT), I want you see a demonstration of a form of counselling called Gestalt Therapy, developed by Dr Fritz Perls.  Again this is a role play, and not a real session, but it conveys the essence of how a Gestalt counsellor would work:

I have used Gestalt Therapy in my own life more than once.  See, for example, the relevant section of CENT Paper No.10: The Story of Relationship

# What is Counselling? 

# Counselling all over the world...

Another component of CENT counselling and therapy came from Transactional Analysis (TA), which was created by Dr Eric Berne in the post-war period in the mid-twentieth century.  Here's a little video clip of Mary Goulding MSW being interviewed about just what TA counsellors do in their sessions with counseling clients:

# What is Transactional Analysis, and how is it used in CENT counselling? 

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Cognitive Emotive Counselling and Therapy (CENT) and Rational Emotive Behaviour Therapy (REBT) 

Now you have a better idea of what is meant by cognitive counselling; cognitive behavioural therapy; psycho-dynamic (or emotive) counselling; Gestalt therapy; Transactional Analysis (TA), and narrative counselling and therapy; you are in a much better position to cope with my presentations on Cognitive Emotive Narrative Therapy (CENT) and Rational Emotive Behaviour Therapy (REBT).  My next video clip, which follows below, describes some of the counselling models used in CENT. It begins with the ABC model from REBT, and shows how the counsellor 'debates and disputes' some of the client's unhelpful beliefs and gets them to change them to more rational beliefs.  It then moves on to the EFR model of CENT counselling.  The E is the Event or Experience that the client has had, about which they are disturbed.  The F is the Frame through which they are viewing and interpreting the E.  And the R is the Response, or the Result of the E times the F; the emotional and behavioural response.  The F in the EFR model differs significantly from the B in the ABC model in that much of the material that makes up the Frame through which the client interpreted the Event is non-conscious!  Finally, I briefly introduce the Five Windows Model, and provide some detail on the first three 'windows'.  This will be taken further in the second video clip in this series:

  

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What follows is Part 2 of the video series on Counselling Models used in CENT.  This clip is designed to demonstrate the first three 'frames' of the Five Windows Model in some detail, as applied to emotional upsets, and I use the teaching illustration of problems arising out of the economic stresses of redundancy or business decline:

Next, in Part 3 of the Models Used in CENT counselling, I explore the use of Windows 4 and 5 to reduce emotional upsets about the same problems as before, arising out of the economic stress of job redundancy or business decline/failure.  Please take a look and see how you can apply this system to your own emotional, behavioural and/or relationship problems:

And since CENT originally came out of Rational Emotive Behaviour Therapy (REBT), you might also want to consult the following web-page:

# What is Rational Emotive Behaviour Therapy (REBT)?

# Counselling all over the world...

Some people think that REBT counselling and therapy is too insensitive to the client's needs, and I think that it is important to clarify this issue.  Therefore, I made the following video to show that I consider empathy towards the counselling client to be one of the most important principles of good, effective counselling and therapy.  This video models how to respond empathetically to a distressing problem presented by a client.  Here's the video on The Role of Empathy in REBT

To see Part 2 of this video series on the ABCs of REBT, please go here: What is Rational Emotive Behaviour Therapy (REBT)?
 
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Attachment-based approaches to counselling maintain that the early childhood experiences of the client have a huge impact on the shape of their adult lives.  "My approach to understanding emotional life is a systemic one.  I argue that human beings are open systems permeated by other people as well as by plants and air and water.  We are shaped by other people as well as by what we breathe and eat.  Both our physiological systems and our mental systems are developed in relationship with other people - and this happens most intensely and leaves the biggest mark in infancy".  For this reason, CENT counselling is very interested in what happened to you in your childhood.

Quotation from: Sue Gerhardt (2004) Why Love Matters: How affection shapes a baby's brain.  London: Routledge.  Page 10.  (40)

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